What if the narcissist proposed a divorce petition, but instead,?
Id expect significant blowback from this action. Not because the narcissist doesnt agree with the divorce, but because they didnt maintain complete control over the process. If children are in the equation, Id put serious time and energy into their emotional fortification - because they are a point of your vulnerability. I was married to a narcissist. The toll it took on me and my children was immense. But there is a healthy, happy life waiting for you all. I wish you well.