Have you ever been with someone who still isnt divorced, lives?
When I was young, this kind of man was always on the periphery of my friends and mines social group. They circled, like lecherous engorged barracuda. We found them repulsive. They are the men who will say anything to enjoy a bit of sex on the side, while preserving their marital homes; too cowardly to tell their wives the truth, and too craven to be honest with their targets for adultery. You, sweet friend, are worth so much more than this kind of relationship.